tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post6074121621507134332..comments2023-04-07T06:42:59.992-07:00Comments on These Women's Words: The Dark Side of the MoonChrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02992006304383497430noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-31930209390993399402010-09-13T08:29:43.389-07:002010-09-13T08:29:43.389-07:00I wish I could relate to this, but I can't. I...I wish I could relate to this, but I can't. I have no experience with the all-consuming relationship, or even mildly-consuming relationship. So I don't have advice or anything healing to say other than, "dude, that's super lame but at least you're learnin' shit."Rassleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12370070146085209687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-1405404311727445692010-09-09T09:56:57.744-07:002010-09-09T09:56:57.744-07:00Beautifully put Ruby. I am praying to all of the a...Beautifully put Ruby. I am praying to all of the above for same. Bitterness messes with my zen. I'm working to put the carbony black pieces of my heart back together. Thank you from the bottom of my slowly mending heart.Zen Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02150722039049104796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-78146891632836321832010-09-08T22:29:29.908-07:002010-09-08T22:29:29.908-07:00Every time I painfully ended a relationship, and t...Every time I painfully ended a relationship, and there were <i>many</i> of these painful ends, I prayed. I prayed to God, and Buddha and my dead Grandpa and the Kitchen sink and and universe whomever or whatever was out there. I asked for only one thing, to please, please protect my heart, to not let it crumble into bits of carbony blackness from being so put upon. to please let me not get so jaded, so angry, so disappointed in love that when it finally, truthfully appeared, I wouldn't have an open heart to receive it. <br /><br />I can only say that I wish this for you,a protected and open heart.Ruby Tuesday Sometimes Wednesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12379398186535728671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-75056218833656958972010-09-07T19:13:44.548-07:002010-09-07T19:13:44.548-07:00Once again Mongo my love - your comment is going i...Once again Mongo my love - your comment is going in my "in case of emergency" notebook. For God's sake though, why does the truth have to hurt so fucking bad?<br /><br />Uniformed, misinformed. That seems to be the theme for all women who fall into these traps. As God is my witness, my daughters will not know the meaning of those two words.Zen Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02150722039049104796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-4113292453252562742010-09-07T17:28:28.116-07:002010-09-07T17:28:28.116-07:00I know him well because I repeatedly screwed, date...I know him well because I repeatedly screwed, dated, lived with and married him until I finally gave up. <br />One of my favorite quotes:<br />"Everthing we know is subject to revision; especially what we know about the truth."<br />Turns out there was nothing wrong with me. I was simply amazingly uninformed and misinformed about my own life, sexuality and how to be in a decent relationship.<br />Ctrl + Alt + Delete. Had to start over. With everything.Mongolian Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18277544884313115003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-62655468859827592752010-09-07T09:50:17.957-07:002010-09-07T09:50:17.957-07:00Shell - that's scares the shit out of me that ...Shell - that's scares the shit out of me that we attract men like this. We go for the super smart, successful type. What are we supposed to do, date Gomer Pyle?<br /><br />Mongo - as always, brilliantly put. "Best observed rather than pursued". How could you possibly know him so well? Perhaps you've seen him lurking in your lifetime. I'm writing your comment down in my purse journal so I can pull it out in the event of an emergency.Zen Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02150722039049104796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-26343576736721257102010-09-07T07:15:18.348-07:002010-09-07T07:15:18.348-07:00Charming + 'You're the only one who can he...Charming + 'You're the only one who can help me' = THE deadly combination.<br />I like him too. He's fascinating, fuckable, delicious, intelligent, interesting, fascinating, alluring, engaging and even sometimes cuddly.<br />Oh, and he's always best observed rather than pursued. Why? Because, while he truly means no harm, that is actually all he has to offer.Mongolian Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18277544884313115003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063279524477351975.post-27312322996559956702010-09-06T16:28:52.937-07:002010-09-06T16:28:52.937-07:00I can so relate to this demon. I know him well. ...I can so relate to this demon. I know him well. I am glad you are seeing him. You and I must realize that we attract this kind of man and we must never, ever be in a hurry to link up with him. We must wait quietly as he does so as to see what he is really made of. Time is their nemesis. Time is our friend. Embrace what it is that you deny yourself to see. Reality. And we must quit looking for that special someone to rescue us, as SHE is in the mirror and been there all along.Shelleyhttp://www.smilesbycanada.comnoreply@blogger.com